Shrub or small tree for shelter from the wind

I'm looking for a shrub/small tree (somewhere in the circled spot) that can provide some shelter from wind in my front garden. It's south-facing and full sun so I thought I could plant whatever I wanted, but it seems it's a trickier spot than I realised: south-facing, full sun, completely exposed, very windy, shallow chalk soil (improved it lots by changing the topsoil + adding a little extra depth).
A neighbour with an almost identical house & front garden has a beautiful californian lilac (not sure which cultivar) so in Autumn I planted one too - a snow flurry - despite RHS saying it's not good for exposed places. Unfortunately it's dying so that was a mistake. I don't know whether Eunice killed it or it was never going to survive.
Does anyone have something they can recommend? Something that can withstand the wind and protect the rest of the plants a bit, but also look nice
. I'm happy to be flexible, but ideally it would:
1. be fragrant
2. have year-round interest
3. could be crown-lifted or shaped as a small tree to make it look a little prettier
Other plants I've got so far are a young peach tree, mexican fleabane (can move them if needs be) and lady of shallot (in a container, which currently is in a bizarre spot but will move). I'll be planting thunbergia alata & verbena bonariensis there later in the year. Ideally the shrub would match those at least a bit.
There's a height restriction in my garden, so I'd need to keep it at around 2-3m max
I've scoured the RHS database for ages but haven't found anything. I was thinking perhaps a shrubby honeysuckle, but I'm not sure whether the site would be too hot & exposed for them. I love hawthorns but I think it'd get too big. Maybe a lavatera? V. tinus seems to grow well around here but I'm a bit (perhaps unnecessarily) scared of viburnum beetle - a stink is not the fragrance I was looking for


A neighbour with an almost identical house & front garden has a beautiful californian lilac (not sure which cultivar) so in Autumn I planted one too - a snow flurry - despite RHS saying it's not good for exposed places. Unfortunately it's dying so that was a mistake. I don't know whether Eunice killed it or it was never going to survive.
Does anyone have something they can recommend? Something that can withstand the wind and protect the rest of the plants a bit, but also look nice

1. be fragrant
2. have year-round interest
3. could be crown-lifted or shaped as a small tree to make it look a little prettier
Other plants I've got so far are a young peach tree, mexican fleabane (can move them if needs be) and lady of shallot (in a container, which currently is in a bizarre spot but will move). I'll be planting thunbergia alata & verbena bonariensis there later in the year. Ideally the shrub would match those at least a bit.
There's a height restriction in my garden, so I'd need to keep it at around 2-3m max
I've scoured the RHS database for ages but haven't found anything. I was thinking perhaps a shrubby honeysuckle, but I'm not sure whether the site would be too hot & exposed for them. I love hawthorns but I think it'd get too big. Maybe a lavatera? V. tinus seems to grow well around here but I'm a bit (perhaps unnecessarily) scared of viburnum beetle - a stink is not the fragrance I was looking for



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A shame about the ceanothus, but they can be very hit and miss.
Gardening is so exciting I wet my plants.
What about smaller shrubs like philadelphus Manteau d'hermine and/or prunus 'Kojo-no-mai'? Both stand up to the wind pretty well and you can underplant with bulbs for winter interest
Olearia macrodonta, the usual form is 'Major' but there is a dwarf form called 'Minor'.. I've grown both.
The usual form grows to about 3 mtres over time, but easily controlled. The foliage is Holly like but soft, not sharp. White corymbs of strongly scented flowers in summer, attracts insects.. thrives on chalk and is totally windproof. Can also be pruned lower down as it has attractive flaky bark.
@AnniD - some of the pittosporums are really pretty! do you know if they respond ok to some stronger pruning to keep them from getting too big?
@GardenerSuze - I kind of want to remove the lawn too, but DH wants to keep it. Could clear out some more to make room for larger beds though. Would grasses get tall enough to provide shelter? I'd thought maybe they were too low
@Plantminded I think I prefer the green one and planting a native shrub would be great, but I'm a bit worried about how I'd shelter it until it became strong enough to withstand the winds. I have windbreak fabric that I used for the peach tree, but it just blew away :t:tired_face:
Good to know about the loniceras @raisingirl. I'd looked at philadelphus but it seemed they might be too wide for the space and I couldn't find any pictures on google suggesting they could be kept neater. I absolutely love kojo no mai though - I have one planted in that terracotta container! I'd assumed they wouldn't be able to deal with strong winds - is that not right? If they'd be ok then that would be perfect!
Gardening is so exciting I wet my plants.
You can hard prune into an established shrub but it wouldn't grow back very quickly, but as you would be starting from scratch as it were, that shouldn't be a problem
Euonymus, lonicera nitida and the olearia that Marlorena suggested are the notable exceptions, along with things like holly and juniper that you probably wouldn't want in that small space.