Garden Watering: Tips & Techniques

Dear all, Given how common it is to have inconsistent rainfall in many areas, especially in recent years, I thought it would be useful to have a thread where we can post and discuss any tips or queries we may have on watering our plants, shrubs and trees in the garden. This can include pots, baskets and other containers.
I'll start by giving a useful tip on how much time you need to keep a hose spray on the ground under a plant, in order to give it a proper drink. You'll often see folk recommend giving a plant a bucketful of water, twice a week (as an example.) If you don't want to be lugging buckets around and generally use a hose, then do this:
Fill a bucket using the hose and time how long it takes to fill and remember that (about 75 seconds in my case.) That is how exactly long you need to keep the hose on something in order to give it a bucketful! A simple thing to do and you'll be surprised at how long it actually takes! 

The reason this is important is that if you don't water sufficiently deeply, your plants will grow roots near to the surface and not deeper down, making them permanently reliant on regular watering; It is a case where 'little and often' is a very bad idea and actually causes harm to your plants.
A trowel in the hand is worth a thousand lost under a bush.
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Best thing I did was to lay porous hose through my borders but my garden is small
East facing, top of a hill clay-loam, cultivated for centuries (7 years by me). Birmingham
Remember that rain barely reaches the soil in most pots too. Most of it hits the leaves and bounces off or just drips very slowly. It feels odd going out to water pots after rain but definitely required.
I'd say it's worth lifting/upturning most of your plants out of the pots, just once or twice per summer, to have a look at how damp the soil is. It helped me to see which ones needed and gave me a better feel for it all.
For pots I absolutely soak them. Usually a couple of times a week for most, bar a few exceptions that get more (hanging baskets) or less (bay trees).
The difficulty I have with watering is in understanding what is meant by the more oblique terms, which are trotted out often on Gardeners World and in this forum. Things such as:
"Give it a good soak"
"Water it in really well"
"Water it regularly"
"Doesn't need much watering"
I'm coping OK (or should that say my plants are coping OK) with my houseplant watering, which tends to be easier to follow using the "finger on the surface/finger below the surface" test. But competent outdoor watering remains an enigma for me.
What do people generally understand the above to mean? Is there any hope of a measurable quantity to go along with the expression? Or am I bound to have to wait until my experience tells me what works! 😁