@granma ... I don’t think he ‘gave up’ ... it was a battle he knew he couldn’t win ... he accepted the inevitable ... in his situation I would have welcomed the speedy arrival of the end ... he was with his loved ones ... what good would another three weeks of increasing pain and suffering have done him or you?In your situation I would’ve done as you did. I don’t believe you have anything to blame yourself for and I’m sure your father who loved you would feel the same. You are not guilty ... no one is ... some things cannot be beaten and we just have to accept them ((hugs))
My sympathies @KT53 - you have been through the mill it seems for a number of years past.