Back-garden Plot vs Allotment Plot

in Fruit & veg
Hi
I have been on the waiting list for an allotment for a while, but yesterday I was offered a large plot of land in the back garden of a friend of the wife.
Now my question / dilema is will I be missing out on the comradery, community spirit etc that you seem to get on an allotment site? or is it not really like that and its really moaning and backstabbing so I'm better off on a private plot
Many Thanks
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I know this is a very negative attitude but unfortunately these things do need to be considered.
I have an allotment and belong to the allotment association we get together occasionally and have talks or a guest speaker, have our spring, summer and autumn shows also have one or two outings a year, then there are the stores open on a Sunday always a place to catch up and have a cup of tea and if your really lucky get a biscuit.
Yes we do have the odd moaner that nothing is ever right for. But then you get that in life.
"You don't stop gardening because you get old, you get old because you stop gardening." - The Hampshire Hog
"You don't stop gardening because you get old, you get old because you stop gardening." - The Hampshire Hog
Sorry, I should have posted this on curmudgeons' corner!
In your situation, I'd take up your friend's offer, but only grow annual crops as you don't know how long it will last. When you eventually get your allotment, then you can plant fruit trees and currant bushes and an asparagus bed.
Don't some neighbourhoods have schemes to pair up people on allotment waiting lists with people who can no longer work their gardens, or simply CBA?
However I can see some downsides to growing in someone elses garden, some already mentioned, like what if they want their land back or decide to move. Things out of your control. Also how would you get access whenever you wanted.
A plus side is that they might water your plants for you but the downside will be you will most likely have to share half your harvest.
Good luck!