Composting...failed again

So I’m getting frustrated again and I’m thinking of giving up on composting. I like the idea, but I’m going into another with this heap and it’s still not producing useful compost!
Past thread: https://forum.gardenersworld.com/discussion/1010812/compost-ready/p2
Year 1 was too dry in a dalek, Year 2 in a meter cube Year 3 with regular watering and pee and turning every three months kept under a thick rug.
It had heat in it and life everywhere when I last turned it, today it’s still moist but still matted grass and no sign of worms.
Also my lead mould pile running for two years hasn’t produced anything either and my turf mound looks terrible.
I haven’t got time for this!
After turning just now:

Past thread: https://forum.gardenersworld.com/discussion/1010812/compost-ready/p2
Year 1 was too dry in a dalek, Year 2 in a meter cube Year 3 with regular watering and pee and turning every three months kept under a thick rug.
It had heat in it and life everywhere when I last turned it, today it’s still moist but still matted grass and no sign of worms.
Also my lead mould pile running for two years hasn’t produced anything either and my turf mound looks terrible.
I haven’t got time for this!

After turning just now:

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I can see stems or sticks that are black, if they are like some I get in my compost they are rotten or snap into little pieces easily.
The flat clumps or lumps of grass may be because you didn't fluff it up enough or mix it well when you turned it.
Sometimes it clumps together so a bit more of a forking and shake action helps to let air in.
If the majority is brown and a bit lumpy it is still fine for digging in or a compost mulch, just pick out the biggest offending lumps and back into the bin?
Or is it fine stuff for making your own potting mix you want?
Even I have to sieve mine.
Show us your leaf mould container/ bags.
And turf mound.
I use daleks and "refined" technique over the years but still make mistakes.
If it really is too much of a faff for you, and if it takes up space and time that could be better spent, that is understandable too. But practice makes perfect, or nearly when it comes to compost.
I don't think it looks that bad.
I enjoy it...but there must be some return on investment!
Break a clump up and see if you have worms in it, if you haven’t there’s something drastically wrong, if you have then you can’t have better in your garden.
Could be as Lizzie says, you should only put on a 2” layer of grass at a time.
I am a little wary as you don't know what has gone into it. But it is probably okay.
You don't have to feel bad or a failure if trying to make compost is wasting your time and effort